Let’s pretend your girlfriend’s husband is cheating on her…would you tell?
I think my response is probably less popular, but I’m not changing it:
Look, I love my friends. Love love love them! But, inserting myself into their private issues is not something I look forward to doing. Personally, if my husband cheated one night and it was a one time thing and he felt terrible…I wouldn’t want to know about it. It would ruin our marriage for sure.
The only way I would tell my friend her husband was cheating on her is if:
1. It’s an ongoing affair…in which case, I would pull him aside and force him to tell her.
2. She has told me she would want me to tell her.
Otherwise? I’m staying out of it!
What would you do?